I’m Stefani, and I’m transgender. Simply put, I’m a woman unfortunate enough to have been born male. It’s who I am, it’s always been a part of me. I’ve been dressing in women’s clothes since I was a teen. It’s been a long journey to this point, to accept that I’m in fact transgender rather than a crossdresser. It isn’t a fetish or some other deviancy. This is my identity, who I am.
This is my journal, where I record my experiences and my fears. I want to record this for myself, and anyone who wants to come along. Acceptance isn’t easy, and accepting myself has been hard fought. I’m just now coming to terms with myself, learning to love myself for who I am instead of hating myself for who I’m not, the man I thought I was supposed to be.
(updated Oct 29, 2016)