I haven’t had a chance to dress up all week! It’s so frustrating, but what can I do? My employer put me on over night this entire week, and two days next week. What fun, but it gets better! My car died and now I have to buy a new one. I’ve been staying in … Continue reading
Author Archives: Stefani Hinojosa
A day of simply nothing
I spent the most perfect Sunday ever! Okay, most of you wouldn’t think so, and even I would have to admit that it could have been better. All the same, I found the opportunity, and took advantage of that opportunity to spend my day all alone, away from everyone and everything. It was heaven. I … Continue reading
If only…
I need more clothes, but I’m so broke! UGH! Why couldn’t I have been born rich or something? I need a job, a better job, one that pays me a decent salary. I need money! Being me isn’t cheap, and I don’t exactly go for designer clothes. I buy most of my outfits at Target … Continue reading
Lost time
When I think about all the time I lost, I get depressed. I can’t remember the last time I treated myself for a nice outfit and got dressed up before now. I know it was some time before I got together with my ex-wife, and that was in 2005. I want to say that I … Continue reading
Developing my style
Do I even have a style? Of course I do, but I’m very much developing it, and my personal sense of style is still evolving. In boy mode, I tend towards mostly solid colors and some plaid, all in earth tones. My favorite colors are black and gray. Were you to take a look at … Continue reading
Exhibitionism vs. Modesty
One thing I’ve noticed recently – and it’s something I already knew to a degree, but never gave it much thought – is how many crossdressers are exhibitionists. I mean to say, many girls that I have started to follow dress to showcase their wares. They dress in the skimpiest outfits they can find, flash … Continue reading
Transgender people: 9 common myths – Vox
Transgender people: 9 common myths – Vox. – Continue reading
At work
I’m currently at work, sitting in the break room, wishing I could be anywhere else, especially my friend’s place. I hate being in boy-mode. I feel like such a slob, and seeing myself in the mirror is so depressing. I live for the stolen moments when I’m allowed to be me. It’s a subtle magic, this … Continue reading
Fantasy and reality
“You look like a secretary”, I’ve been told a couple of times now. That works for me. “A sexy secretary?” I ask hopefully to my friend, the second one who made the comment. She just laughed at me. That’s okay. I’ll take it. Actually, I wouldn’t mind being a secretary, preferable for a cute boss … Continue reading
An unexpected sick day
What a day! I went to work as scheduled, but I didn’t remain long. As I was about the step out of my car, I got a dizzy spell. It sucked! I don’t like missing work, so I decided to soldier on, like a good little employee, hoping the spell would pass. It didn’t While … Continue reading
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